Wednesday, October 22, 2014

Are we sure of the tomorrow's people??

Everyone is getting along with the new trend. And I totally don't dig the idea, whatever happened to the proper and old fashion way of getting married? I used to think marriage involved going to the altar and standing before the priest to say vows that stands as a hold between the couple or better still going straight to sign the compulsory marriage certificates in court. Our forefathers left their tracks and we seem to be forgetting our traditions, culture and Christian ethics. Do we even know what bride price means anymore?
The newest scenerio goes as thus, Boy meets girl, along the way boy and girl fall in love with each other and have 2 or more kids before even thinking about marriage. This new trend is totally way out of line, people ask what's the big deal he proposed already and they are still going to get married? And my response has always been the same It Is Not The Right Thing To Do. Why on earth do I have to be pregnant with his child before we get married? There's no sense in that, nothing is stopping us from having our kids afterwards so what's the rush? From my observations celebrities started this trend, they go round sleeping around and just one silly mistake they get the girls pregnant, you hardly see celebrities without kids these days. Most of them have one or two baby mamas. Asides from the mistakes some of them actually plan to have kids with their girlfriends without even putting a ring on it.
  Truth is ring or no ring, following the christian ethics without him taking you to the altar and doing the right thing before God and people you love, having a kid for him is totally improper and unacceptable to me. Let's all get a hold of ourselves and stop this billshit!

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